Transitioning to the parenting stage as a couple : a narrative inquiry

Abstract

This study elicited the stories of a married couple living in Malta during their transition to parenthood. A case study narrative approach making use of in-depth semi-structured interviews was employed. One couple was interviewed, first individually with both parties, and then jointly. An interpretive story was constructed based on the data collected from the interviews, making sure to give voices to both parents and couple. The text was then given to the participants for review and feedback, which was implemented into the final version. The basic findings follow literature that predates the present study. This research confirms the “honeymoon effect” taking place during early pregnancy; shows how integral the experiences of sacrifice and letting go are to being a parent; and shows the effect of an unplanned caesarean section on couples. Additionally, the impact of children on relationships was discussed, particularly the couple’s sex life and self-concept differences before and after having a child. Lastly, the sources of support that aid in the adjustment process was also prevalent. These findings were discussed in relation to previous literature done on the topic. Recommendations for future research and implications for practise and service development in a local context were also suggested.