Parental alienation : the lived experience of targeted mothers

Abstract

The aim of this study was to explore the lived experiences of nine self-identified targeted mothers of parental alienation in Malta. This study sought to address this research gap by adopting a systemic approach, specifically examining how this phenomenon impacted the targeted mothers’ emotional and physical well-being, as well as their relationships with their children and other family members. Data elicited from the interviews with these mothers was analyzed using an interpretative phenomenological analysis (IPA) approach. Taking a social constructionist perspective, the findings were interpreted through the lens of ambiguous loss theory and contextual family therapy. The targeted mothers experienced parental alienation as a continuation of the abuse that started off in marriage, and continued after the separation, where the children were enlisted in perpetuating the abuse through the alienation. The ambiguous loss these mothers experienced was debilitating to their well-being. They sought various ways to cope, while also expressing the need for more understanding and support from their families and professionals. This study provided suggestions for targeted mothers enduring parental alienation, emphasizing the importance of seeking support for themselves and their children through family therapy. It also offered recommendations for therapeutic professionals and others working with these families, including the need for specialized training and expertise.